When Solidarity Becomes Conditional

What happens when support for women depends on whether the woman agrees with us? When Solidarity Becomes Conditional examines feminism, political identity, belonging, faith, and the ways women can become divided by ideology. Using psychology, Scripture, and my own theories of dissonance and emotional idolatry, I explore what our treatment of one another may reveal about what we actually believe about dignity, truth, and solidarity. … More When Solidarity Becomes Conditional

This Was Never the Plan

This was never supposed to be my path.

My work was shaped in the middle of real life, through disability advocacy, hard diagnoses, and moments where what I was seeing didn’t match what I was being told. I couldn’t ignore it. Guided by faith and lived experience, I learned to stop accepting surface answers and start paying attention to what the body was actually communicating. … More This Was Never the Plan

One Last Sidekick

Only one still says yes to the adventures. Only one still wants to hold my hand. Only one still looks at me like I am the coolest person in the room. And I am going to soak up every minute of it. This season is fleeting—but it is golden. … More One Last Sidekick

“I Don’t Have Time” — The Real Meaning and What It Feels Like When It’s You They Don’t Have Time For

Let us explore the deeper truth behind the phrase “I don’t have time,” revealing it as a reflection of our true priorities—and the pain it causes when others make us feel like we’re not one of them. With honesty, grace, and biblical perspective, it offers insight and healing for those wrestling with being deprioritized by the people we love. … More “I Don’t Have Time” — The Real Meaning and What It Feels Like When It’s You They Don’t Have Time For